Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Corvallis

Corvallis, Oregon

 

Good Things Come from Unexpected Places:

Why UUs Can and Should Be Optimists

December 4, 2005

Sheila Smith

 

Sermon:

      “Good Things from Unexpected Places”

 

Sr Cecelia is still alive at age 98 and has never been sick a day in her life.  Sr Marguerite died of a stroke at age 59......

      From Martin Seligman’s book Authentic Happiness, one of today’s sources.

 

The example I just read of the nuns shows that individual optimists are better off. I’ll expand on that idea a little, then I’ll show that members of traditional religions tend to be optimists, and why.  Although we UUs don’t accept the fundamentalists’ reason for optimism, I’ll give reasons based on game theory and evolution for UUs to hope. And what better time to celebrate Hope than this season of Advent.  

 

Many studies show that optimists are healthier, live longer and are more successful than pessimists. The more optimistic presidential candidate won 85% of the elections in the 20th century. For example, in 1952 Stevenson was full of doom and gloom while Eisenhower exuded can-do optimism.

 

One group of optimists we’re all familiar with is members of fundamentalist religions.  Seligman and Sethi did a study that showed Orthodox Jews, fundamentalist Christians and Muslims markedly more optimistic than Reform Jews and Unitarian Universalists.  The more fundamentalist the religion, the more optimistic its adherents. The authors suggest the reason for the increased optimism is that fundamentalist religions teach hope.

 

For example, the Christmas story teaches hope.  Let’s look at the images in the Christmas story.  A Divine child is born, not in a palace where you’d expect such a being to be born, but in a stable. The people around him are ordinary working people: a carpenter, shepherds.  He’s the child of an unwed mother and the family is homeless.  But angels announce him and wise men visit.  The story tells us good things can turn up in the most unexpected places. And whether you believe the story is literally true or not, it still spells hope.

 

Now, some UUs reject such stories altogether.  UU minister John Nichols quoted the song we began with this morning when he preached about those who “take the route that is highly critical of religious beliefs generally...they will believe and accept only what is forced upon them by rational inquiry.”   I enjoy reason and fact as much as the next person, but I always chuckle when I hear those lyrics because I know there’s not much comfort and joy in the kind of reason and fact that debunks.   If all UUs can do is rail against what other people find meaningful, our movement will die.

 

Going back to Sethi and Seligman, do liberal religions fail to teach hope, or do pessimists select liberal religions?  I think we UUs, especially our activists, have accepted too much of the Puritan heresy. Rebecca Solnit points out the connection between activism, pessimism, and puritanism:

 

Sometimes these bad news bringers seem in love with defeat, because if they are constantly prophesying doom, actual doom is, as we say in California, pretty validating.  But part of it is a personal style: I think that this grimness is more a psychology than an ideology. There’s a kind of activism that’s more about bolstering identity than achieving results, one that sometimes seems to make the Left the true heirs of the Puritans.  Puritanical in that the point becomes the demonstration of one’s own virtue rather than the realization of results.  And puritanical because the somber pleasure of condemning things is the most enduring part of that legacy, along with the sense of personal superiority that comes from pleasure denied......Another part of the Puritan legacy is the notion that no one should have joy or abundance until everyone does, a belief that’s austere at one end in the deprivation it endorses and fantastical in the other since it awaits a universal utopia.

 

Rather than puritanism and pessimism, we UUs  need stories that engender hope.   I have come to offer you such a one this morning.  A story that has the added advantage that it’s probably true in the scientific as well as the metaphorical sense. First I’ll go over the problems inherent in the traditional view of God, held by those who believe literally in the Christmas story.

 

Adherents of traditional religions believe in a supernatural God who is omniscient, omnipotent, all good, and created the Universe. They also believe in free will for humans. With those beliefs and a promise of a blissful afterlife who wouldn’t be an optimist?

 

But many UUs see logical flaws in this concept of God.  An all powerful all good being would probably have prevented the Holocaust and definitely have prevented Katrina from destroying New Orleans.  If he’s not in charge of political systems, he should at least control the weather.

 

Rabbi Harold Kushner in When Bad Things Happen to Good People interprets the story of Job to mean if Job and God are both good, God can’t be all powerful. Kushner concludes God can’t be all good and all powerful at the same time. Even God can’t prevail against Chaos, personified in the Job story by the sea serpent  Leviathan.  But God, in Kushner’s view, remains the source of goodness. But if God cured your mother of cancer, how come he didn’t cure mine?

 

So what’s a UU to do?   How can we be optimists like the fundamentalists and thus make our movement successful?   I want to examine one more aspect of the traditional God, then I’ll tell you how we can be optimists without invoking the supernatural, by extrapolating from a dog training story into game theory and then back to evolution and God.

 

The traditional God is also the Creator of the universe.  God laid everything out in six days, species by species of plants and animals. Then humans were created by an additional divine intervention.       This last phenomenon is a vital point to traditional believers.  They claim that human life has meaning because God created us. 

 

But that task is lost to the traditional God because the universe and life most likely arose naturally without the intervention of a supernatural creator.  Darwin established in 1859 that natural selection creates new species.  Some of these species are downright outlandish like giraffes and duckbilled platypuses. 

 

Solnit suggests God, rather than presiding over a static Newtonian universe, is more like the Native American deity Coyote “who is indestructible, lecherous, hilarious, and improvisational.”  Coyote sounds like a metaphor for evolution to me!

 

For the last century and a half, the conservative religious establishment has been fighting evolution. Even now they want to teach creationism in the schools as an alternate to the “theory” of evolution.  I think the reason evolution is so threatening to believers in a Creator is that they feel that if God did not make us and evolution did, then our lives are meaningless.  Big logical gap there for me. In my opinion, the reason and facts of evolution are the key to hope. Why?  

 

First I’ll tell you a dog story, then we’ll take a side trip into game theory, finally we’ll see God and evolution in a new light.

 

One afternoon I headed for the couch with my magazine, but the dog I’d had adopted a few months back had settled in the good spot first.  I reached for his collar to pull him off, but Bozeman, possibly wary of my abrupt reach and my magazine, gave me a glassy eyed stare and a soft growl.

 Uh-oh. 

 

This was the first time Bozeman had growled at me.  I needed to stop this behavior before he learned that he could control humans with growls and/or his growls escalated to snapping and biting.  I lured him off the couch with a treat and installed myself in the good spot to ponder my options.  

 

I could sit on the floor, but it is my couch.  Luring him off the couch amounted to bribery. What if Bozeman decided he preferred resting on the couch to eating a treat?   Or I could take umbrage at Bozeman’s defiance – no dog of mine is going to growl at me -- and flatten him with a  magazine (thereby confirming his fear of literature) or yell, hit, or jerk his collar.  Then again, Bozeman might flatten me with a bite.  Also, punishment might teach him to skip growling and go directly to biting.  

 

I phoned a trainer.  She suggested that  Bozeman lose couch privileges.   But I’d have to lay the dining room chairs on the couch when I was gone;  besides my other dog (who never growls) is allowed on the couch.  In addition, losing couch privileges would only manage the problem, not teach Bozeman to get off the couch when I asked him to – which is what I really wanted.

 

Once I began to think in terms of what I wanted Bozeman to do (get off the couch when asked) rather than what not to do (defend the couch), the solution appeared. Why not teach him to switch between on and off the couch on command? He’d earlier learned to switch between “Take it” and “Leave it.” That way he’d understand the concept of “Off!”

 

To teach the behaviors, I’d  use my trusty clicker, a hand held noisemaker that tells the dog he did it right and will get a treat. I’d already successfully clicker trained  Bozeman to enter his crate on command. 

 

The next day, in the presence of the clicker, Bozeman perked up, ready to learn. I patted the couch, clicked and treated when Bozeman jumped up onto it.  Then I pointed to the floor with a treat in my hand, and clicked and treated when he jumped off.   After a few repetitions, I named the behaviors “Up!” and “Off!”  I repeated the Up!/Off! sequence a dozen times;  phasing out clicking and treating in the last few repetitions.  In five minutes, Bozeman had learned to get on and off the couch on command.  

 

Ever since that one short training session, neither of us has threatened the other. When I want to sit on my couch, I tell Bozeman “Off!” He hops off with no objections.   I nestle in by the pillows, then I invite Bozeman “Up!” to cuddle. 

 

I didn’t realize it at the time but this whole incident can be analyzed in terms of game theory, first articulated by von Neumann and Morgenstern in 1944. The options I didn’t choose are zero-sum games.  I sit on floor, Bozeman wins, I lose. I bribe Bozeman, he wins, I lose.  I put chairs on couch, Bozeman and I both lose.  I punish Bozeman, he loses, I lose too if he bites me then or next time.  I clicker train, we both win.  Clicker training is shorthand for applied operant conditioning.

 

Karen Pryor, the foremother of clicker training, doesn’t use game theory language but she shows how clicker training is a win-win system.  She also illustrates Seligman’s claim that good feelings are the hallmark of win-win games.  I quote from Pryor:

 

Instead of trying to fix the dog and stop the problems, owners began looking for good behavior and rewarding that; and the problems usually went away by themselves....The attitudes of the dogs changed too.  This person with a clicker who perhaps used to be largely an impediment to what ever the dog wished to do, now became an exciting and even valuable acquaintance.  A dog that had discovered ways to make the owner click became much more focused on the owner, much more interested in what the owner wanted.  Two beings that often had been at odds with each other now became partners learning together.

 

Now back to evolution.  Although evolution is a random process, some traits are selected for more than other traits.  Look out the window and you will see green trees, grass, and shrubs, multicellular plants (not single celled algae) with chloroplasts in their cells that might have been free living organisms once, but played a win/win game by incorporating themselves into plant cells.  Robert Wright in his book Non Zero contends that organic evolution selects for greater complexity and more win/win systems. One reason is because more complex life forms are able to fill previously vacant niches.  This  is a purely natural or material process that does not require supernatural intervention.

 

Wright likewise claims that intelligence is selected for.  For instance, intelligent predators catch more prey leaving their genes for intelligence in the pool. With our big brains, humans, despite our slow legs and weak jaws, have spread over every continent on the planet.

 

Not only organic evolution, but cultural evolution has moved in a similar fashion.  Jared Diamond in Guns, Germs, and Steel gives historical-anthropological examples of increasing complexity in human societies. Forty thousand years ago all humans lived in bands of a few dozen members of an extended family.  Even now I think, we recreate groups within our complex state societies small enough so that everyone knows everyone else,    The UUFC is such a body where we all know each other and  can make decisions in town meeting fashion.

 

Over the past 13,000 years, bands  have combined into tribes which coalesce into chiefdoms which then become highly organized states with 50,000 or more population.  An evolutionary reason drives the amalgamation:  “Societies with effective conflict resolution, sound decision making, and harmonious economic redistribution can develop better technology, concentrate their military power, seize larger and more productive territories and crush autonomous smaller societies one by one.”  The fate of the  Greenland Norse may be the exception that proves the rule.  The Norse were better organized politically but the Inuit’s superior Arctic technology won out.

 

To sum up, greater complexity and  win/win systems are both selected for in both organic and cultural evolution.

 

Nobody has to be nice for win/win systems to prevail.  Listen to this example from The Godfather Returns by Mark Winegardner. This is a novel about career criminals, very unpleasant people you wouldn’t want to have over to dinner or meet at a restaurant for that matter.   Geraci, whom the reader saw earlier carrying out a mob execution, muses:

 

Killing Michael Corleone would have been another option, and like killing Narducci, a satisfying one.  But where would it have led?  Mayhem, war, millions of dollars in lost profits.  Even if they won, they’d lose.

 

So even a cold blooded killer can see there’s something in it for him not to be violent. Also, by this point in the story, the Mob has formed a nationwide network of operations.  Peace just works better when systems get more complex.

 

At the conclusion of Authentic Happiness, Seligman, paraphrases Wright.  “He knows of course that history is checkered with one horror after another.  Progress in history is not like an unstoppable locomotive, but more like a balky horse that often refuses to budge and even walks backward occasionally.”

 

But in Seligman’s words, Wright insists, “The broad movement of history, not ignoring such backward walks as the Holocaust, anthrax terrorism, and the genocide against the Tasmanian aborigines, is, when viewed over centuries, in the direction of more win-win.”

 

Look back only 45 years.  Solnit points out how much our world has changed since she was born in 1961.  [It was] a world in which there was little or no recourse – and often not even the words – for racial profiling, hate crimes, domestic violence, sexual harassment, homophobia, and other forms of exclusion and oppression.”

 

Now  how can we UUs make a meaningful life?  The answer is we can go with the evolutionary flow toward complexity and win/win scenarios.  If we see ourselves moving the universe toward greater complexity and win-win scenarios, life is hardly meaningless.

 

Think of the story of the three medieval stone masons.  The first said. “I’m piling up rocks.”  The second one said, “I’m building a wall.”  The third mason, eyes shining, said, “I’m building a great cathedral.”  Me, I get to be a clicker trainer for dogs. And only a cockeyed optimist of a dog trainer would persist long enough to make a therapy dog out of Bozeman who when I adopted him leaped and nipped and hated to be touched.

 

Seligman identifies greater complexity with more connections ie  more power and knowledge, and more win-win scenarios with greater goodness. 

 

The design toward more complexity [is] mandated by the invisible hand of natural selection and of cultural selection that favors more win-win.  I think of this ever increasing complexity as identical with greater power and of greater knowledge, as well as greater goodness, since goodness is about a ubiquitous group of virtues all successful cultures have evolved..... A process that continually selects for more complexity is ultimately aimed at nothing less than omniscience, omnipotence, and goodness.   

 

Note that knowledge, power, and goodness are the attributes of the traditional God. Maybe the traditional God is more like a Platonic form or a Jungian archetype. Or what the  French paleontologist, priest and mystic Pierre Teilhard de Chardin would have called  the Omega point. I think we get a Coyote-type God for now.  We have to wait till the end for an omniscient, omnipotent, all-good God!

I conclude with a final quote from Seligman 

 

This is not a fulfillment that will be achieved in our lifetimes or even in the lifetime of our species. The best we can do as individuals is to choose to be a small part of furthering this process...

[We] can choose a life built around increasing knowledge: learning, teaching, educating our children, science, literature, journalism, and so many more opportunities. [We] can choose a life built around increasing power through technology, engineering, construction, health services, or manufacturing.  Or [we] can choose a life built around increasing goodness through the law, policing, firefighting, religion, ethics, politics, national service, or charity.

 

This is the door through which meaning that transcends us can enter our lives.  A meaningful life is one that joins with something larger than we are – and the larger that something is the more meaning our lives have.  Partaking in a process that has the bringing of a God who is endowed with omniscience, omnipotence, and goodness as its ultimate end joins our lives to an enormously large Something.

 

 

Order of Service

December 4, 2005

9:30 & 11:00 a.m.

“Good Things Come from Unexpected Places:

Why UUs Can and Should Be Optimists”

Sheila Smith

 

 

Welcome and Announcements

 

Light Chalice

 

Opening Words

      #653, Resurgence of Joy

 

Opening Song

      “God Rest Ye Unitarians”

God Rest Ye Unitarians, let nothing you dismay

Remember there’s no evidence there was a Christmas Day

When Christ was born is just not known no matter what they say

O tidings of reason and fact, reason and fact

Glad tidings of reason and fact.

 

Our current Christmas customs come from Persia and from Greece

From solstice celebrations of the ancient middle East

The whole darn Christmas spiel is just another pagan feast.

O tidings of reason and fact, reason and fact

Glad tidings of reason and fact.

 

There was no star of Bethlehem, there was no angels’ song

There couldn’t have been wise men cause the trip would take too long

The stories in the Bible are historically wrong

O tidings of reason and fact, reason and fact

Glad tidings of reason and fact.

 

      Author unknown

Reading

      Seligman on the nun study

 

Sermon

      “Good Things Come from Unexpected Places: 

      Why UUs Can and Should Be Optimists”

 

Offering/Offertory

 

Verbal Response

 

Sung Response

      #244, “It Came Upon a Midnight Clear”

 

Candles of Joy and Sorrow

 

Meditation

      #578, “Olympia Brown”

 

Extinguish Chalice

 

Closing Song

      #240, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” (verses 1, 2, 3)

 

Closing Words

      #549, “Teilhard de Chardin last 2 paragraphs

 

Closing Song

      #240, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” (verses 4 & 5)

 

Greet your neighbor!