“Ironic Points of Light:  Peace and Justice”

Sunday, October 17, 2004

Rev. Gretchen Woods

 

 

CHALICE LIGHTING

We light this chalice,

holder of the flame of our faith.

May it show us the way to peace through justice.

May it light our way in a darkened world.

Blessed Be!

 

OPENING WORDS

This Great Lesson” by Olympia Brown, who wrote of peace in the 19th century, and may truly speak to us now.

We can never make the world safe by fighting.

Every nation must learn that the people of all nations are children of God, and must share the wealth of the world.

You may say this is impracticable, far away, can never be accomplished, but it is the work we are appointed to do.

Sometime, somehow, somewhere, we must ever teach this great lesson.

 

READING

      from W. H. Auden

Defenceless (sic) under the night

Our world in stupor lies;

Yet, dotted everywhere,

Ironic points of light

Flash out wherever the Just

Exchange their messages:

May I, composed like them

Of Eros and of dust,

Beleaguered by the same

Negation and despair,

Show an affirming flame.

 

SERMON

      “Ironic Points of Light: Peace and Justice”

 

Shortly after I arrived here, while I was learning the history of this congregation and its tender points, several people (who shall remain nameless for this sermon) approached me with concerns that the distress here during the Vietnam War had made us unlikely to honor our veterans of any war. This response seemed to me a bit of injustice.

 

I was also made aware that one veteran (who shall remain nameless for this sermon) was quietly coming to the Fellowship at 11AM on November 11 each year, to light a candle and provide silent vigil for those who lost their lives fighting in our armed services. Over the years, others had come quietly to join him and appropriately pay their respects. That is a powerful tribute to the affect the actions of one person may have in a religious community. Consciousness was being raised; justice served.

 

But I waded into the fray with my usual, if less than conscious, enthusiasm, eager to undo injustice. Over the next few years, I mentioned this situation in several sermons: two on or about Veteran’s Day, two on or about Memorial Day, and randomly throughout those two years. I also took to attending the vigil on November 11 at 11AM. It grew, and some of our vets began speaking at the vigil, mentioning names of those they remembered. Last year I think there were more than 20 people here for the vigil. Its founder stayed away. It had gotten too big. I was saddened by that, but felt good that people’s awareness was changing.

 

Then, after several years of this effort, I started getting comments from those who felt I was not giving enough attention to those who had worked hard for peace. That, too, is injustice. Thus is it ever: none of us can give enough attention to every human need, BUT, we do need to listen to each other and become more aware of the places and times in which we are ignoring injustice, no matter how uncomfortable it makes us. Through this, we begin to co-create true peace in our midst.

 

Several great speakers of our times, among them Martin Luther King, Jr., asserted, “There can be no peace without justice.” Peace and justice are inextricably linked. Our second Unitarian Universalist Source states that we are moved by “Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.” All well and good, but how, effectively, can we truly do this without alienating one or another of us. Let us consider the thought of M. Scott Peck, Jay Rothman, and our own UU values to see if they can inform us, not only about the “what,” but about the “how.”

 

In his book, A Different Drum: Community Making and Peace, M. Scott Peck observes that true community can only be effected when we move beyond the stage of “pseudocommunity” where every one is “nicey, nicey” because no one will hear or acknowledge real differences within and among the group. In systems parlance, communities love homeostasis and don’t want change, so they keep things as surface as possible to avoid any real contact that would cause us to face that we don’t all think alike or believe the same things about almost anything. That’s pseudo-peace.

 

Sooner or later, someone feels strong enough to name something upon which the group does not really agree. Someone surfaces the issue that is rubbing some folks, however many or few, the wrong way. Starhawk calls these folks “snakes,” and this is not a pejorative term. We need our snakes in healthy community. These are the folks who have the courage to lift up to the group an issue that needs attention for both community making and peace. These are the folks who hear and bring up the issues that must be raised for the health of the community, even though there are clear differences about the issue.

Peck calls what ensues “chaos,” and notes that healthy community  only comes through chaos. Now, in chaos, a lot of us get scared that all will go to pieces, and we will lose everything, because tempers flare. We are conflict averse. But conflict is a natural part of healthy community. We find out what we, as individuals, really care about.

 

We have several options at this point. We can slink back to pretenses of peaceful community, which really is pseudo-community. We can feed off the energy of conflict and keep it going, perhaps as infinitum. (Some of us really like that energy. It makes us feel alive. And some systems make it their mythos.) Or we can, as Peck suggests, “Listen each other into silence.” This is not as easy as it seems, but it is essential to moving into true healthy and peaceful community. In this stage, we each speak our passionate truth, AND we also each listen to the truths of those who disagree. Peck asserts, if we truly listen as well as speak, we shall usually find that our hurts and hopes are not so far apart, and that we can find common ground to go forward as a group, even if we realize we shall never totally agree. As the great Unitarian Historian Conrad Wright reminds us, “We do not need to think alike to walk together.” We will certainly know one another better and have greater respect for the hurts and hopes that move us through the world. We will know true community, in all its messy diversity.

 

Jay Rothman adds to this understanding the realization that the deepest hurts and hopes usually rise around issues of personal identity. We can see this in the Middle East, in Rwanda, in the Sudan, in India and Pakistan, and here in Oregon. And, all too often, human beings lose track of what unites us, in the recognition that some things divide us.

 

Rothman asks human beings to really bring out the differences, rather than pretending they don’t exist, to honor who we are and how that hurts. Then he asks the groups involved, whether it be teachers and administrators or Arabs and Jews, to seek their common goals, the things upon which they can agree, like quality of classroom environment or justice in distribution of resources. Then they seek ways to move toward the common goals, making those goals more important than the differences. I don’t think this is much different from Peck’s approach. In the end, the groups who identify as different find ways in which they can agree, despite their greater knowledge of the differences.

 

Each one of our Unitarian Universalist values: “the inherent worth and dignity of every person; justice, equity, and compassion in human relations; acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations; a free and responsible search for truth and meaning; the right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large; the goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all; and respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part;” each one of these values points the way toward greater peace and justice in our world. They inform how we respond to each other in conflict. We are not asked to give away our most dearly held values to co-create peace. We Are asked to listen to one another, to find common ground, and to move forward as a religious community, knowing that sometimes one aspect of our life will hold center stage for a while, but no aspect has the power to overwhelm all the other real and varied issues that confront us as human beings. We are asked to co-create those “ironic points of light,” those moments when justice is served and the possibility of true peace rises.

 

Sometimes we shall deal with universal health care. Sometimes we shall deal with hunger through our efforts for the Tunison Food Bank. Sometimes we shall raise funds for We Care. Always, we need to listen to one another to hear our truths and to move with them.

 

In conclusion, I invite each one of us to choose one issue that is really important to us. Then find your allies within and outside of this congregation and work for that issue. This certainly worked well when Louise Ferrell found the Adopt-a-Minefield project and energized the whole town to raise over $28,000 to clear a minefield in Afghanistan.

 

I also think each of us needs to find a spiritual practice, whether it is running, or quilting, or meditating, or Yoga, or reading, or praying, or journaling, or – well, you get the message. We need to find ways to fill our spiritual tanks, so we don’t become empty, cranky folks who always seem to be fighting some demon without ever having any fun. If it isn’t fun, it probably isn’t worth doing, no matter how important the issue. That’s the relish piece of the equation.

 

Finding ways to work for peace and justice lies at the heart of our spiritual process as a religious community. As Mark Morrison-Reed reminds us:

 

The central task of the religious community is to unveil the bonds that bind each to all. There is a connectedness, a relationship discovered amid the particulars of our own lives and the lives of others. Once felt, it inspires us to act for justice.

It is the church that assures us that we are not struggling for justice on our own, but as members of a larger community. The religious community is essential, for alone our vision is too narrow to see all that must be seen, and our strength too limited to do all that must be done. Together, our vision widens and our strength is renewed.

 

Each of us has potential to be an “ironic point of light” who stands against darkness in our world and brings together the lights of others to do so as well, with respect, responsibility, and relish for the process.

So Be It! Blessed Be!